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The psychological harm of child marriage

I did a previous article on the physical harm done to the mother and the child due to child marriage and also prepubescent intercourse which was really revealing just how dangerous the practice is. In this article I will take a briefer look at the psychological harm that can be done to mothers that are under the age of 18. The age of 18 is the age that the UN recommend as the youngest age that is relatively safe when compared to younger ages. Sadly there has not been as much research done on the psychological harms compared to the physical harm done, which is probably why this article will be shorter that the previous.

 

One piece of research that has gone into this issue to some depth is “Overlooked and unaddressed: A narrative review of mental health consequences of child marriages” by Rochelle A Burgess Et al [1].

To quote from the introduction “Child or early marriage–defined as marriage under the age of 18 –is a harmful practice that occurs globally and can limit the developmental outcomes of girls, and children born into these unions [2]. Current estimates suggest that one in five girls are married before the age of 18, and more than 650 million adult women alive today were married as children [3]. South Asia and sub-Saharan Africa bear the largest burdens of child marriages.”

 

The same paper said this in the abstract “Depression was the most reported mental disorder. Anxiety, phobias, psychological distress, substance misuse, negative well-being and anti-social personality disorder were reported less frequently.”

 

The paper then gives us the graph below. If you care to read the paper, I suggest parts 3.2.1 to the end of section are the most informative (link in the notes below).

 

 

 

A paper called “Forced marriage, forced sex: the perils of childhood for girls” by M Ouattara Et al [4] says this in the abstract “Girls who marry before 15 years of age are more likely to be illiterate than their older counterparts, more likely to be dowry payment brides, less likely to come into contact with development projects, have higher rates of infant mortality, and are most vulnerable to sexual violence. In many cases, intercourse is initiated before the girl begins to menstruate. Although adult women also face sexual violence within marriage, this problem is all the more traumatic for girls who lack any information about sexuality. Sex with girls below a certain age is usually covered by rape legislation, but, in countries such as India, this is mitigated by the religiously defined personal laws. The absence of adequate legal and policy action frameworks to deal with the rights of girls, coupled with the lack of sanctions against these abuses, comprise state complicity and neglect of duty under international law to this vulnerable group.”

This is of course another disturbing paper.

 

Conclusion

To be honest the data is a bit thin on the psychological harms caused by child marriage. It also would have been nice if there was research done that compared the different ages of the girls – below the age of 18 is really too broad. I am sure that we all suspect that the younger the age of the child then the greater the risk of harm, but more scientific evidence would be good. Young children are not equipped to bring up babies mentally and the stress to them must be incredible.

 

Another area that needs to be investigated is the affect on the child brides education. In some third world countries women’s education can already be poor but even if they can get a good education, this will greatly be reduced if the bride is of the ages that Islam allows. This is demonstrated in Afghanistan where girls are encouraged to be married by the age of 12, but younger is fine with the rulers of that country. In the west underage mothers will often be encouraged to catch up later in life, which could be after the baby has passed the nursing stage but in Islam countries it is usually expected that a wife and mother will have more children in fairly quick succession.

 

Notes

 

[1] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10021205/

Overlooked and unaddressed: A narrative review of mental health consequences of child marriages

Rochelle A Burgess, Mairi Jeffery, Sabina Adhiambo Odero, Kelly Rose-Clarke, Delanjathan Devakumar

Editor: Aniruddh P Behere

Last accessed July 2025.

 

[2] Efevbera Y, Bhabha J, Farmer PE, Fink G. Girl child marriage as a risk factor for early childhood development and stunting. Soc Sci Med. 2017;185:91–101. doi: 10.1016/j.socscimed.2017.05.027  [PubMed] [Google Scholar]

 

[3] Girls Not Brides. Child Marriage Around the World [Internet]. Child Marriage Around the World; 2017. Available from: https://www.girlsnotbrides.org/where-does-it-happen/

 

[4] Forced marriage, forced sex: the perils of childhood for girls

M Ouattara, P Sen, M Thomson

Gend Dev. 1998;6(3):27–33. doi: 10.1080/741922829 [DOI] [PubMed] [Google Scholar]

Last accessed July 2025.

 

Further information

 

Girls Not Brides

https://www.girlsnotbrides.org

Last accessed July 2025

 

Association of child marriage with suicidal thoughts and attempts among adolescent girls in Ethiopia

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23433537/

Last accessed July 2025

 

Child marriage and its associations with controlling behaviors and spousal violence against adolescent and young women in Pakistan

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25123525/

Last accessed July 2025

I can not leave it like this!

 

The purpose of this website is not about exposing the lies and deceit of your particular belief and then leave with no hope and nothing to believe in and no purpose in your life. While it may be a good thing to realise it if you have been lied to too or deceived, this does not mean there is no truth out there.

There is truth and something that you can believe in and commit to and it will change your life – not just for now but for all eternity. Now I am not saying all your problems and troubles will disappear while you are alive in this present world but what you can have is a peace that is greater than your worldly problems. I want to be clear on this – for some people, becoming a Christian could make your life a lot harder. But despite all this, you can have a purpose in your life despite what circumstances you find yourself in. You can have a real fellowship with the living God and actually have God himself dwelling inside you by His Holy Spirit. No one ever regrets becoming a Christian. In the end we will spend eternity with Jesus in paradise. As Paul said “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.” (2 Corinthians 4:17). If you read the book of Acts and see what Paul went through, it is remarkable that he would describe them as “light and momentary troubles.”

The good news is that free and available to all of mankind. You don’t have to be clever or rich or gifted or be from a certain family or country. Anyone can receive it.

The Bible tells you all you have to do is “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved.” That is taken from Acts 16:31. One of the most famous verses from the Bible has the same message, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that everyone who believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16).

There are actually a lot of Bible verses that have the same message about salvation being free and simple but I will quote just one more on this which is Ephesians 2:8-9 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast.

It is a very important principle to grasp that we can bring nothing to our salvation. It is a gift from God by His grace and we can not add any of our own works to it.

 

 

So what to do now?

Of course you can simply just commit your life to Jesus by asking him to forgive all your sins, and asking Him into your life as your Lord. Making Him your Lord will mean that you allow Him to be the Lord of all your life, which means you seek his will in all you do. On occassions you will fail to obey him, but "If we confess our sins,he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness (1John1:9)." If you feel you are not ready to take that step but would like to know more, I would recommend getting hold or download the Bible and start reading it. I would suggest starting in the New Testament but all of the Bible is good for you. It would also be helpful for you to find a good church and go along and ask all those questions that you would love to get answers to.

Also you are very welcome to contact me on my email gospeljohn14verse6@gmail.com and I will help in anyway that I can.

 

God Bless. Kevin.